Relationships Turn Grey With Misunderstanding

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Anjana NS

By Anjana Ns

Thursday, July 14, 2011, 13:38

Human beings have always proved to get diverted because of their intrusive mind. Our body language and physical set up helps in shifting our mind to different chapters at various accounts of life. We can never make a correct decision in life if things are not concentrated properly. So do our relationships that need a well coordinated understanding to pursue the desired objective on a particular issue. Relationships always strengthen when equal space and respect is given to each other. Be it, the relationships between a mother or a child or teacher and his student or even between single couples everyone needs to understand with specific area.

But with the change in living standards in relationships are always on an edge to get a wound. It mostly happens when trust fails to register itself and the element of misunderstanding creeps on. One cannot avoid the so called attitude as it has been accustomed well in our changing modules. People don"t leave their attitude but are on a positive look for misunderstanding. Things never go wrong on their own but it is our mental grooming session that makes it more unworthy.

In the present context one thing can be made clear that due to unavailability of time and space between relationships there comes an invitation for all kinds of problems. One cannot escape from the required strata and infact becomes more poignant to such situations. When we do talk of exhibiting a perfect relationship, importance must be given to the required elements.

The prior factors for a better understanding in relationship are trust, faith and belief in one another. Misunderstanding can creep up very easily hence each one needs to be always clear about his or her ideas and thoughts regarding the opposite partner. Things are always categorized as public and private but they can be shared on a good understanding. Discussion of things can make sure many virtues and will certainly help to land in a desired direction. Well one thing can be made clear and that is ambiguity and untidy behaviour which always leads to chaos in relationship. Hence a healthy norm of practicing mutual understanding in relationship is highly required for a better life.