Why men are finicky about women?

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"I am so finicky. I can't decide whether I want to enter into a serious relationship with you." This statement and similar sounding ones drive so many women to their extremes and even feel worthless. This statement from men after a period of dating will often become a punch to the feminine pride. Here is an interesting analysis of the specific reasons about why men are finicky about women.

Here is one fine boy in his teen years. There is one pretty girl who looks into his eyes so often and giggles with her gang of girlfriends as he passes. His friends encourage him to talk to her and enter into a relationship. He is so confused whether the giggling girls around are admiring or making fun of him. The confusion regarding his passing infatuations reflects the situation "I have to be finicky about women."

The college hero has so many admirers around him. One girl is sponsoring him at restaurants and theatres. Other girl is writing all his pending assignments and hectic class works. One is so patient to all pranks while the other is a strict and loving guide at all situations. All are his good friends and there is no wonder that he has to be finicky while entering into a relationship with any of them.

There is a change all around the dear boy as he enters a prospective career life. Even that popular girl who had turned her face on the other day looks up with admiration for his new assets. The admiring feminine eyes glitters as he climbs on new steps of career, drives a latest car and builds a luxurious apartment. As he is confident of his prospects he is finicky about the swarming girls around him.

The greatest choice in a man's life comes at the time of his marriage. He is finicky and scared at the same time. He will be confused whether he wants to choose a traditional girl or modern girl or wealthy girl or working girl as his partner. Men also want dwell into the past relationships of the prospective girls irrespective of his own past adventures. The fear of commitment and pre-marital blues put him into the greatest finicky situation in his bachelor life.

The divorced men face the ultimate finicky situation in life while they enter into a second relationship. If their ex-partners reject them; they will fear a rejection from their prospective partners. They may not choose a partner as long they get the assurance and confidence from a new lady. If the break up has happened from the men's side and they are aware of it; they will fear that their character may not suit with all women and they have to be finicky in their future life.

Whatever be the reason the finicky attitude of men often leads to serious relationship problems. Women on these days often state that they also have to be finicky about men. However in Indian society the ball is in men's courts at most of the times and the situation would be better if men try come out of sticky finicky attitude.