How To Co-operate With Insinuating Comments?

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By Staff

Tuesday, May 25, 2010, 14:19

“Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving."

People in this modern era seems to be much smarter than their predecessors for passing insinuating comments at unnecessary situations. An insinuating comment is an evil tool that can spoil your entire day or even week by throwing you into either depression or anger. They may do it on purpose or merely for the sadistic pleasure of spoiling another person's peace of mind. If you are confused how to deal with insinuating comments here are some useful tips to brighten up your day.

Bang the anger
The first feeling that may erupt in your mind while listening to an insinuating comment is anger. Control ! The other person is provoking you with an insinuating comment to bring out the negative aspect into light. Why should you play according to his/her tricks and damage your personality? Be cool and take deep breaths without showing any emotion on your face.

A smile on your face...
Have you ever tried this tactic while listening to an insinuating comment? Try this and you will see how the other person falters to find any other reason to condemn you. The 'Mr./ Ms. Perfect' will definitely feel that you are not a person to be destroyed with their evil tongue. It may be very difficult for you to smile at such a situation but, that smile will definitely reward you by stopping the wagging tongue.

Hackneyed words

The other person might have hurted your feelings very badly with their harsh words. Now, you want to reply and justify your point of view. If you feel that this situation is unavoidable, never even try to get into the other person's shoes. Master the art of hackneyed words and justify your ideas or behaviour. However, do not point out the other person's mistakes since, people like him/her may never understand what is lacking in them.

Self analysis
Did the insinuating comments crushed your spirits and seeded the feelings of inferiority in your mind? It is time for self analysis. Always judge, whether there is any truth in those insinuating comments. If there is a mistake from your part, try to accept and correct it whole heartedly. On the other hand why should you let your spirits down with those derogatory remarks? As you do the self analysis, you may realize your true caliber and must be proud to own those qualities.

Ignore and forgive
When you get really depressed with insinuating remarks, analyze the similar previous situations. You may find that those remarks did not make any change in your life apart from putting you into melancholy for some time. So, why should repeat the scene again? If you do not plunge into the depression with these harsh comments, you may not be a loser again. Just ignore those rude words and forgive them for making the world, a difficult place to live in.

The person who passes the insinuating comments may have many traumas in his/her mind. He/she may be finding an outlet for own depressions by making others sad. While they cover their faults with these harsh words, never give up the anger,dhanyasree m,inferiority,insinuating comments,melancholy,peace,personality,positive spirits,self awareness in your personality. These simple steps will assist you at many situations in your life.