Do You Dream About Your Ex Lover?

It is a very common thing to have dreams about your ex lovers. In fact, it is the most frequently asked questions at dream interpretation sessions. Past relationship are part of our sub-conscious mind. So even if you do not consciously think about your ex, you can still have dreams about your ex lovers.

There are many interpretations of dreams about your ex lover. It does not necessarily mean that you want to get back with your ex. That is probably the last thing on your mind. In fact, dreams about your ex lover mostly does not revolve around the person as such.

Dream About Your Ex Lover

Here are the various things that these dreams about your ex may represent.

A Simpler Life

As we get older, we get busier with life and running in the rat race. When you literally have too much to do and no time for leisure you start missing your younger days. At this point of time, you may be missing a particularly relaxing vacation or long drive that you took long time back. In this case, the interpretation of the dream about your ex lover is that, it is not that you are missing him or her at all. It is that period of your life that you are yearning for.

The Things You Miss

Suppose you are married to a person who is very serious about life. Your present spouse likes to read, watch intellectual movies and contemplate. Now you love your spouse a great deal but may be some part of your psyche misses an outdoor life full of activities. Then may be you can have dreams about your ex lover and the shared moments of hiking, boating and driving.

Youth

When we reach out middle ages, we become very nostalgic about our youth. Small references to our college life like the cafe at which we hung out can bring forth a bout of nostalgia. If you had a passionate college romance, then you can dream about it in your 40s. It is called midlife crisis.

Emotional Baggage

If you dream about your ex every time you are about to enter a new relationship, then you have emotional baggage. You compare every new guy or girl to your ex. You do mental maths of the pros and cons; then you are scared to take the plunge. Having emotional baggage means that you have trust issues.

If you dream about your ex lover, then don't panic. Find out which of these situations is true for you.

Story first published: Thursday, May 30, 2013, 18:07 [IST]
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