Kids Worried About Parents' Arguing More Prone To School Problems

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Developmental psychologists vary widely in their assessment of child psychology, and the influence the outside world has upon it. Children happen to have their own set of belief and are vulnerable when the world outside is not exactly stable

Children who worry a lot about conflicts between their parents are more likely to have problems in school, according to a new study. The study, conducted by researchers at the University of Rochester, Syracuse University, and the University of Notre Dame, found that this happens because such kids have more difficulty paying attention to the tasks before them. This study is one of the first to chart how children's concerns about their parents' relationship may increase their vulnerability to later adjustment problems.

For the study, researchers looked at a group of 216 predominantly White 6-year-olds, their parents, and their teachers annually over a three-year period. Children were evaluated to determine their negative thoughts and worries about how their parents got along, based on how they completed unfinished stories about conflicts between parents. Teachers reported on children's ability to get along with their classmates and take part in class activities, and on their behaviour as a measure of how they had adjusted to school.

Specifically, they were asked whether the children were cooperative with peers, followed teachers' directions, used classroom materials responsibly, and usually acted appropriately. Children's attention problems were assessed through reports by parents and computerized measures of how they were able to focus and sustain attention.

The researchers found that kids who had concerns about how their parents got along had more attention problems a year after the concern was first identified, according to the study. These attention problems, in turn, were linked to reports by teachers that the children had problems adjusting to school in the same year and one year later. Attention difficulties accounted for an average of 34 percent of the relationship between children's worries about their parents and school problems.

In many cases, children's negative thoughts were based on witnessing actual relationship problems between parents, and the study suggests that the children may have used the negative thoughts to help them cope with stress in high-conflict homes. The study appears in the September/October 2008 issue of the journal Child Development.

It becomes the responsibility of the parents to be able to shelter their children well, this includes a healthy bond between the parents as well as it has an instant affect on the children.