Why You Shouldn't Go Out With Friends When Your Wife Is Sick?

When your wife is sick, can you afford to go out and party with friends? Read on to know why you shouldn't do that!

Thursday, May 25, 2017, 12:45 [IST]

Men love to party as much as possible. But when they get married, they are forced to go home early and reduce late night parties with friends.

Some men don't mind changing a bit after marriage but some men do complain about the so-called sacrifices that they have to make for the sake of the wife.

And imagine a situation when your wife is sick. What if you're invited for a very big party where all your friends are going to attend? Will you leave your wife alone at home and still attend just because you are craving for parties? Read on to know why it is wiser to avoid the party in such a situation.

That's Insensitive

Firstly, you will come across as a person devoid of empathy and compassion. And when you build such an image for yourself, you will get no love in return.

Whether you are in an arranged marriage or in love marriage, without love, things fall apart soon.

She Will Feel Betrayed

When she has no one by her bed side, she may feel lonely. That will prolong her recovery time. And negative feelings will cloud her mind and spoil her day.

She May Take Revenge

If your wife is understanding, she might forgive you for what you have done to her. But otherwise, she would do the same to you when you fall sick. Imagine her partying with her friends when you are bedridden!

She May Seek Help From...

What if her male friend or colleague or even a male neighbour comes home to take care of her when you are too busy partying out? You wouldn't like it right? That's why it is better not to attend parties when your wife is sick.

You Too Can't Enjoy Your Party

If half of your mind worries about your sick wife at home, can you give your 100 percent to the party and enjoy it thoroughly? Think again!

Your Presence Works Better Than Medicine

If you stay by her side, even if you do nothing to help her out, your presence will do some healing. When she gets the feeling of being cared for, she may recover fast.

What Science Says...

Psychologists say that human brains strengthen bonds during tough times. The love and support that we get when we are in tough times will be recorded in the memory. That is why we tend to stick to people who stay with us during ups and downs of life. So, your wife will love you more if you stay by her side.