How Do I Get Along With Husband?

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Anjana

By Anjana Ns

Wednesday, December 7, 2011, 17:45

We find many couples marrying each other and being close for a few years. After some period, it will be shocking to see them parting ways and moving on with life. Some even commit suicide for not being able to cope with loneliness. Today, we will discuss about getting along with husband and saving marriage. Take a look.

Getting Along With Husband
1. Ask men and they will say that the most difficult thing in this world is understanding women. Forget getting along, it is nearly impossible to get to know what women actually want. Most women try to be too rosy till the wedding and change attitude after marriage. For men, it is hard to digest as they aren't made that way.

2. And women have their own reasons. They feel getting along with men or getting back to husband is the most difficult thing to do. Men get extremely possessive and never realise that women require their own space. Freedom is curbed so as the expenditure. Many indian women feel their married life to be a golden cage without windows.

3. Men and women may have their own reasons but what divides them completely is the interference of the family (in-laws, siblings and friends). They gossip about each other to each other and cause split. The best relationship advice for this would be to keep all of them away and meet occasionally.

4. Women nowadays need patience and perseverance. They need to get matured and think about children and future. Women need to realise that getting back to husband is not their failure but a fair win for a secured life. Even men should understand women and not get dominant in relationship. In marriage, husband and wife need to be like pals, always ready to share the good and bad.

5. Getting along with husband is as easy as getting along with anybody when you make him as your priority. You profession and success is short lived but your partner is always there to support and accompany you in tough times.
If the man you married is no less an animal then getting along is still possible but with a different mate.