How To Fall In Love Totally?

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But Swamiji, how do we start falling in love totally? It seems like it is easier said than done!

The first thing: Flood awareness into every action of yours. Become the watcher. You will start feeling that the whole thing is a drama and you are only watching it while playing a role yourself incidentally. Second thing - stop being judgmental about everything that you see. When you stop being judgmental, you will simply love everyone and everything with total innocence.

When you are judgmental, you don't see what IS, you see what you want to see. Most of us have already formed our judgments in advance. They are the foundation stones for us. Then, we simply act keeping them as a solid base. Anything we see, the first thing we do is, view it with our preconceived judgments.

If we act in this fashion, how do we see things as they are? How will we ever fall in love? You can fall in love only if you welcome everything with a freshness, with a certain innocence. But what do you do? You start analyzing the pros and cons for even loving. When you start analyzing, you miss it. When you finally decide to do it, it may be too late.

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