Reasons Why You Should Not Hurt Your Parents At Any Point In Time

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Every parent, especially father, after the birth of the child, learns to detach himself from the family pleasures and starts sacrificing for the interests of his child.

He relinquishes his own simple pleasures just for giving his quality time to his kids, and break his bones working day and night to provide security to his family.

He is the shield that the family proudly calls " Papa" who is always busy shielding himself and his family from the big bad world out there.

He receives all the wounds, nurses himself back to health, puts on a forever smiling face, carry his family on his shoulders and keeps wading along to reach the shore of the sea of life.

When he loses to life and shows the signs of wear and tear, all he expects from the family is some humanity in reciprocation to what he did to the family.

Children do not actually reciprocate and such children form about 60 percent of the population. Please consider not saying these hurtful things to your father for the reasons elaborated here.

Astrologically there is a meaningful connection with planet Sun and fathers. Sun governs the Father. If you do not respect your father, and have constant fights with him, he would do nothing but weaken his Sun.

Sun stands for wealth, affluence, good status and position, and good health and all that is good for a great living. By bringing down the morale of your father, you are weakening your sun and the benefits you get out of the Sun in your horoscope.

You can know what kind of a person your father is by looking at the Sun inyour horoscope. If the son or daughter insults his father, history will certainly repeat itself and the son will suffer at his sons hands later. Remember that your parents are fatigued and retired soldiers in life.

They can lend very pragmatic advice to you out of their own experience of life which, if you listen to, will be greatly benefitted. You will also know how to manoeuvre skilfully through life. It may be that the father is strict and angry or his behavior is rude.

There is something called Shashtashtaka yoga. This yoga is indicated when there is an association of Shani and Surya or Sun in some way or the other.

This yoga induces the father and son/daughter to have constant fights and conflicts and they both can not stay under one roof This is an unfortunate situation.

Even during shani sade sati, it is just perfect understandable if you can't make it to a pilgrimage center and do the compensatory rituals. You have your parents at home. Just prostrate to them every day and Shani effect will not bother you at all.

Sending them to old age homes is the worst back stabbing that you can do to your parents. What if they had done the same things when you, in your adolescent years had almost killed them with your misbehaviour and risky choices? Misbehaviour here means going against their knowledgeable advice and spoiling your chances in life by doing it.

There is one more observation which has come down generations through centuries. If a child obeys his parents, especially his father, he would turn very lucky in life and his luck quotient increases. Obedient children almost always come up in life. This is a tried and tested observation.

You don't know anything, you can just shut up.: This one sentence crumbles the self-confidence of the father in one go and tears him apart. The experiences, pains and worries that the father had to undergo for the child, is in a minute, disproved in the eyes of the child.

Parents may be as tough as a nutcracker when it comes to protecting their childrens interests in the world but when it comes to their own children, they cant take a small criticism by the child as their hearts are petal soft towards the children. This is clearly an insult to the years of experience and love of the father towards the child.

Why did not you take up a good job and give us good lives?: Your father may not have given you a good luxurious life but he did his best what he could at that point of time.

It was the best that he could do for you and he fought tooth and nail for it. So do not crib about their inability to provide you all creature comforts. Remember that he too has a history behind him and that failure was a part of it.

What did you do for us all along? You did nothing for us: Children, almost all of them, want to be born with a silver spoon in their mouth.

They blame their personal failures on their parents. You might have poked some fun at his expense by talking like this, but he feels deeply hurt for life as you have just mocked at him and his very existence in your life.

You do not know that each grey hair in his head has a story behind it and each wrinkle in his face is the scar that he has borne through in the battle of life just for your sake.

Don't behave like a young person. You are no more so.: Some fathers have some youthful energy still left, and probably they conserved it by will.

Probably he did not choose to grow old mentally. You do not know how painful it is to slowly grow old and at the same time accept the problems and insecurities that old age brings along.

So they would loved to relive their youth to the extent they can to preserve their enthusiasm about life. You must not criticise them for being juvenile and youthful.

They might not have experienced their youth enough. If you become old without going through life, you will only be like a n artificially ripened guava that has ripened before its time.

So consider their situation and hapless circumstances before bad mouthing them. Do not make them strangers in their own home. They are the only ones to offer you unconditional love.