Ways To Handle Angry Husband Smartly

Anger management does not come easily to everyone. That is why it is imperative that you handle your angry husband smartly. Every human beings expression of anger is different. Some men shout and yell at their wives to express anger. Some also become completely quite and go into a shell. You have to handle your angry husband depending on his nature.

If you are a good wife, you will know your husband in and out. And when you know how your husband is, you can easily find ways to deal with him in an angry state. These are some instant and smart ways to handle your angry husband.

Handle Angry Husband

Be Quiet

When one spouse is angry, it is the other spouse's duty to be quiet. Even if you feel that your husband's anger is unjustified, you have to be silent for the moment. It never helps to get angry and try to react with violence. Your silence will give him the chance to let out his anger completely.

Give Space

Don't insist on discussing the issue immediately. If he seems very upset about something, then don't force him into talking about it. Instead, just give him space. This space will allow him to recollect his thoughts and judge if his anger was justified or not.

Go To Him

Sometimes, distance is not the best way to handle your angry husband. May be he is angry at someone else and wants you lend him an ear. Go to him and give him a comforting shoulder. You must do this tactfully because men don't want to feel weak. Be there for him but don't coax him beyond a limit.

Make Love

Sometimes, the oldest trick in the book is all that works. Even if he is really angry, he will not be able to resist your seductive moves. He might reject your seduction at first. But eventually he will succumb to your charms. Break a heated argument with a kiss. It almost always works in your favour.

Write Instead Of Speaking

If your husband is angry with you because of some mistake you have committed, then you have to say sorry. When he is already angry, it is very difficult for you to go and say sorry to him. He might just get more annoyed. So instead of speaking, write a sweet love note to him after sometime, saying that you are sorry.

These are some smart means for a good wife to handle her angry husband.

Story first published: Thursday, August 22, 2013, 17:54 [IST]