Ways To Cool An Angry Wife

By Tara Hari

If you had an argument with your wife the night before, chances are you would have forgotten it by the time your head hits the pillow. But not your wife! You might think you won the argument, but she will be getting ready to wage war. Men are rational creatures, using logic to solve all their problems, but there is no place for logic when you are dealing with an angry woman. And pretending to be invisible will only fuel her rage further. She is like a ticking bomb, waiting to blow up.Every man must learn how to diffuse this bomb, for the sake of his own sanity.

Ways To Cool An Angry Wife

So these are some ways to cool an angry wife and impress her.

Admit you were Wrong: The first and most important way to cool and impress an angry wife is to admit that you were wrong. It is irrelevant whether or not you believe you were wrong. And make sure it is not done in a condescending manner. That will just make things worse. As long as you convince her that you were wrong in your ways, and agree with her, you are safe. Until the next argument.

No Logic: Refrain from using logic to win the argument with your angry wife. She will not buy it. And if you call attention to how illogical her arguments are, you will definitely end up sleeping on the couch. Instead of using logic, try to justify your actions by saying they were motivated by your love for her. She will cool down in no time and you will get extra brownie points.

Listen Closely: You might think you are arguing about something trivial like dirty dishes, but the argument might be about something entirely different. She might be fighting with you for something you did weeks, months or even years ago. And if you try to brush it off as insignificant, you will be in for trouble. So try to understand what the argument is really about and act accordingly.

The Right Response: Sometimes women argue just for the sake of it. Make sure her anger does not ignite yours. Refrain from turning the issue into a debate or ridiculing her argument. If you leave in the middle of the argument, shut her out or pretend everything is fine, that will aggravate her anger even more. But if you buy her flowers, take her out or plan a fancy vacation, she will be like putty in your hands. The right response can leave spitting like a wildcat or her purring like a kitten.

Women have longer memories than elephants. She will file it away in her head in the vast list of grave injustices you have done to her in all your married years. She will hold a grudge long after you forget. She also will not hesitate to bring it up in your next, completely unrelated argument. So make sure you cool her down when she gets angry at you, by following these tips!

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