Signs That You Should Never Marry

We look at birth, death and marriage as absolute realities of life. There is this old wives saying that 'everyone has to get married eventually'. But in modern times, the 'eventually' might never come. You don't have to get married if you don't want to. Marriage is a choice, not a compulsion. And if you are happy being single, there is no reason for you to get married.

Some people should never marry because they are not cut-out for a marriage relationship. If you are not marriage material you will either struggle very hard or end up in a divorce. That is why it is better to never marry than to end up in a broken marriage. This is not an exercise to make you paranoid enough to never marry. You first need to determine whether you have any marriage material traits at all.

Some people are loners; they are capable of going through life alone. They can be in relationships but they should never marry. Marriage is a life long commitment that calls for many changes. If you are not marriage material you will not be able to make those changes.

If you have any of the below traits, you should try to never marry anyone.

You love coming to an empty house

You love coming to an empty house

Most human beings cannot stand the sight of an empty house. But some people just love the personal touch that is there in an empty house. This shows you are definitely not a marriage material.

You prefer solitude to company

You prefer solitude to company

If you are a loner, then you prefer to sit at home and read an interesting novel instead of going out and partying with friends. If you are solitary person, your spouse may not like it very much.

You hate shopping with others

You hate shopping with others

Usually, people need companions while shopping to give them valuable advice. But if you are very sure of your taste, you would take the advice as interference. This won't work very well after marriage.

You don't like to share the remote control

You don't like to share the remote control

Are you one of those people who remain glued to the television? Then you would obviously not like to share the remote control with your spouse.

You don't want 'more' from a relationship

You don't want 'more' from a relationship

When your partner asks you if you want 'more' from a relationship, then it usually means marriage. But you are perfectly happy in a relationship and yet never want 'more'.

You prefer company of friends to dating

You prefer company of friends to dating

Most people find it exciting to go on dates and romantic outing. But if you are one of those people are thoroughly bored by dates and prefer to watch football with friends, then marriage is not for you.

You are self sufficient

You are self sufficient

You can cook your own meals, clean your own house, wash your clothes, drive your car and earn your living at the same time. In short, you are physically and emotionally self-sufficient. If this is the case with you then are surely not a marriage material.

You like to go on vacations alone

You like to go on vacations alone

Human beings are gregarious. Especially on holidays, we always believe that more the people, the merrier it is. However, there are some people who like to take vacations alone so that they are not disturbed.

You can stay for days without talking

You can stay for days without talking

Most average people are scared of loneliness. Our worst fear is that we will not have anyone to talk to. But there are people who do not like to talk; they can go without talking for days.

Your career is your life

Your career is your life

Are you workaholic? If you come home post 10pm every weekday and spend your weekends planning your schedule for the next week, then marriage is surely not for you.