Early Marriage 'IS' A Problem!

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Anjana NS

By Anjana Ns

Monday, June 20, 2011, 12:57

The unity of two people joining together, becoming one, in Holy Matrimony is a new such trend among youngsters. Little do they know that early marriage is not all about fun and frolic as it comes with new responsibilities and bumpy adventures?

Early marriage for youngsters seems like a game, well, it is high time youngsters of this generation wake up as marriage is a big deal after all and it surely does come with a lot of disadvantages especially when one indulges in early marriage.

Here stated are some of the disadvantages, rather problems on a key note for those of you who are unaware of an early marriage.

1. Immaturity - When it comes to tying the knot at such an early stage, both the partners are not aware of what a marriage is, as both of them are not matured in the mind. This in turn will lead to problems like that of misunderstandings in the relationship as well as in law issues.

2. Guidance - If the newlywed partners are residing alone, there will come a time in the marriage when a problem arises and since they are immature, both the bride and groom will lack parental guidance to guide them through problems.

3. Finance – This is the most important aspect when it comes to any relationship. Early marriage lacks financial support and in most cases both the partners have to rely on their parents to gain materialized things in life.

4. Family Planning - The most common early marriage problem is that of unplanned pregnancy. This indeed is not good for the mother as she is young and will also lead to complications in the child to be born.

5. Pleasures – There are times when the girl or the boy might want to further their studies. Thus the problem of early marriage will withhold this desire in their life. There are many other things that the couple would want to do, which marriage puts an end to it all.

These are some of the problems which are usually seen in early marriages. So think again and decide as to when be the right time for you to settle down in life.