10 Tips to Make Him Run After You

Which girl won’t be thrilled to know that she is the object of love and attention of a charming boy, whom she too secretly admires.

By Jaishree Premkumar

Remember Dev Anand serenading his beloved to the tune of a beautiful song? It was said that the young girls of that generation swooned over Dev Anand and imagined themselves to be in the heroine's place, only to experience the feeling of being loved by the charming man!

Why blame the girls? Which girl won't be thrilled to know that she is the object of love and attention of a charming boy, whom she too secretly admires.

The problem is, in real life there are no heroes and heroines and also no songs to help the lovers come closer. Tricky situation, girls? Not really. Just try to follow the tips mentioned below and your prince charming will surely be after you like a smitten lover to ask you out for a date!

Ignore Him

Ignore Him

Yes, young ladies, you heard it right. You know the guy is interested in you and you too find him appealing. So, the next best thing to do is ignore him.

It will hurt his ego. A boy who is generally admired by people, will find it difficult to digest that there is someone, who thinks that he is not worth giving attention. Wait and see. He will take it as a challenge to grab your attention by hook or by crook!

Be Surrounded By Your Friends

Be Surrounded By Your Friends

So, the guy you are interested in is looking for an opportunity to talk to you. The trick is try not to give him that opportunity for a long time!

The frustration will make his will stronger to chase you, because which boy would like to accept his defeat?

Be Ignorant Of His Feelings

Be Ignorant Of His Feelings

Sometime or the other, he might catch your attention and would try to talk to you. Okay, do not stress. Talk, but talk to him as if he is just one of those many boys who is trying to be friendly with you.

Show Your Snobbish Side

Show Your Snobbish Side

Feel like expressing your true feelings to him? Wait. Even the mango tastes sweet, when it's ripened. So, allow him to chase for some more time and try not to fall for his charm, by having a "I don't care" attitude.

Try To Be A Serious-Minded Girl

Try To Be A Serious-Minded Girl

Yes, it works! Showing the serious side of yours and pretending that you treat affair or friendship with boys as something below you, would hurt his feelings. He would try to prove it wrong by making you realize that love is real and he is the one and only one for you!

Friends? Yes, But Nothing More!

Friends? Yes, But Nothing More!

How long can you play that hide and seek game? So, now you are ready to be friends with him. Fine, but let him be just a friend, just like your other close friends, till you feel, it's time to take your relationship to the next level.

Do Not Immediately Reply To The Messages

Do Not Immediately Reply To The Messages

Now that you are friends, SMS and phone calls will start. But, it's better if you can control yourself and be brief with your replies. The more you try being harder to get, the more the boy will be running after you!

Dates Can Wait

Dates Can Wait

Can't believe that he is asking you out? Should you say yes? Try not to. There will be loads of dates, once your relationship begins. But to enjoy the chase, try to show that you are too busy to give him any time!

Introduce Him To Your Other Friends

Introduce Him To Your Other Friends

Whenever you get a chance, try to introduce him to your friends, especially male friends, who are just your well-wishers. He will be jealous and will try harder to be your centre of attention.

Relish The Chase

Relish The Chase

Think that he has chased you enough? It's time to reward him? Surely. You can. Now that he has proved his worth and love for you. What are you waiting for? Poor guy has done enough running after you. Have a heart! Now that you have enjoyed the chase, it's time to celebrate and go on a much-deserved date!

Story first published: Tuesday, June 20, 2017, 12:56 [IST]