Ways To Make Him Call You

By Madhu Babu

If there is one thing that makes you feel wanted and confident about yourself more than anything else is when "he" calls you. It makes you feel special and desirable when you get a call from someone special in your life. Even if the call is just to say 'hi' or to know what you are upto, it signifies a lot more than words that are exchanged from the call.

In the beginning of any relationship, there are several calls to and from you. As the relationship progresses, the initial excitement wears off and frequency of calling each other reduces. However, if you wish to receive calls from him more often, you have to make sure the perception of you continues to make him want you. Many times you have to "play hard to get" or not reveal too much of yourself, thereby keeping the curiosity alive in him.

If you want to make a man desire you more than any other woman, then you need to make sure you are consistent with your behaviour and what he liked in you initially is what you truly are. No man desires a glossy empty shell. So you have to be a box of surprise that is consistently making him desire you. Here are several ways to make him call you.

Play hard to get

Play hard to get

Yes, playing hard to get is the most important aspect of you that makes him desire you more. However, you have to make sure you are not playing too hard. There is nothing wrong in playing hard to get for keeping the mystery in you and curiosity in him alive.

Patience

Patience

As much as you are playing the hard game, your man might be playing the same game too. You have to be patient after your date or your previous call and not come off as desperate. Keep yourself busy and expect a call or probe with a casual message.

Don’t get physical yet

Don’t get physical yet

The longer you put off getting physical with him, the greater chance you have of him desiring for you even more. Most intimate relationships have to get physical eventually to keep it going further. However, to make him call you more, you have to play long and keep off physical intimacy for proper timing.

Perception

Perception

You have to make sure his perception of you continues to make him want to call you and keep him interested in you. You have to make him desire you by being who you are throughout rather than change very often and make him loose interest in you.

Emotionally available

Emotionally available

Even a man needs a shoulder when he is down and someone to go to when in need. You have to make yourself the go-to person during his hour of crisis to make him trust you and be dependable on you. This will make him desire you in a way that will make him call you for more reasons than there actually is.

Don’t bore him

Don’t bore him

There is nothing wrong in doing some research on his likings and talk about it when he calls. As a matter of fact, this act of yours will improve your image and make him call you more than his other friends. It will connect him to you on a more intimate level.

Meaning

Meaning

The relationship you have with him should be heading in the right direction and should mean something to keep it moving. Make sure what you have with him is meaningful and fun so that he has reasons to desire you and call you.

Story first published: Thursday, November 7, 2013, 17:38 [IST]
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