Ways To Change Your Man For The Better

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Women often complain that their men do not change in order to adapt with time and new responsibilities. For a relationship to be compatible, both partners have to make some changes. Women make these changes happily and willingly. But men always like the way they are. So, it is a tough job to get your man to change for you. But must start training your boyfriend from now so show him the light of reason.

Men simply hate nagging women, so nagging will not help you change your man. If you want to train your boyfriend, then you have to treat him like an overgrown child. Most men need mothering all their life. But they are too proud too admit it. So to change your man, you have deal with him like a difficult adolescent. Only then you will succeed in making your relationship compatible.

Change your man without his knowledge. That way you will be hugely successful. If he comes to know that you are planning to change him, he will immediately become defensive. So to change your man, you have to be sly and play by his rules. Prove your point with logic and not emotional blackmail.

Here are some simple way to change your man without nagging him.

Ignore Him

All men like to get attention. But when you give him too much attention, he will start taking you for granted. So ignore him for a while if you want to get his attention.

Have Your Own Life

Never chase after your man. Be busy in your own life. Make it clear to him that he has to make an effort to try and fit into your life.

Taste Of His Own Medicine

If he parties one weekend with his friends, the next weekend you go out. When he will be left alone on a weekend with nothing to do, he will realise what you went through.

Prove Your Point

Suppose your boyfriend spends too much., don't keep nagging him about his spendthrift habit. One month, let him run out of money. Then lend him the money and prove your point with real life examples.

Lead By Example

If you want him to change then you have to show him how. Give him a clear picture of what you want from him. If he does not share the housework, tell him you are tired and need him to help.

Be There For Him

When he is in times of need or crisis, be there for him. That way he will know that he can depend on you. This mutual trust will make sure he values you and tries to change for you.

Show Him How Lucky He Is

When you meet a couple where the woman is very nagging or too demanding, point it out to him subtly. He will know how lucky he is to have you.

Never Ever Nag

Even when you are absolutely irritated with him, never nag him. The moment you nag him the battle is lost. He never going to take you seriously.

Make His Life Comfortable

Human being change for any relationship when they see value in it. If he were a drunkard with no future, would you change for him? No right? So, he will change for you only when you add value to his life.

Never Alienate His Friends

Always keep his friends and family on your side. Be nice to his family and make his friends your friends. That way you will get a lot of external support to change him.