Signs You Are Ready To Move In Together

Moving in together in house is a big step which requires a lot of attention. You need to look at both the pros and cons of moving in. It is one of the phases of a love relationship where you do not think much and in a haste decide to stay together.

Well, moving in together is a nice way to spend some time with each other and get to know your partner better. However, decisions taken in a haste is always regretted later. So, you should give your relationship some time and then decide to stay together.

Often couples who are deeply in love start having troubles with each other once they move in together. This is more common when the romance is fresh. New couples want to be with each other and this craze makes them take this decision. However, with the passage of time and reality striking on the face, couples end up fighting and having lots of adjusting problems. This spoils their lovely relationship and ends up with a break up.

It is not that, moving in together is a mistake. It is one of the best ways to know each other before heading further in a relationship. So, to have a healthy relationship even after you move in together, you need to be prepared for this step. For example, there are certain signs in a relationship that can give you signal that both of you are ready to spend 24x7 with each other.

Signs You Are Ready To Move In Together:

You Are Not Suppressed

You Are Not Suppressed

Often a woman or man is suppressed in a relationship which controls their freedom. If your partner assures that you have your own life and doesn't interfere in minute issues, then it is a sign that you can move in with your partner.

Not Strong Honeymoon Phase

Not Strong Honeymoon Phase

Often couples move in together as the physical love is more stronger and dominates the heart as well as mind of an individual. They move in together so as to enjoy the love and romance to the fullest. After a few days when the sex drive gets to normal, reality strikes in! So, when you think that sex is not the only reason to move in, then consider it as a sign.

Sexually Compatible

Sexually Compatible

If both of you are sexually compatible, then it is a clear sign that you two are ready to move in together and experience the new phase of a relationship.

Strong Finances

Strong Finances

When you are secure about your finances, then you can think of moving in together with your partner.

Easy Settlement

Easy Settlement

Often settling down on topics such as equal division of expenses, cooking etc can be one of the major causes of a break up. So before moving in, if you two have settled on these minor to major things, then consider it as a sign of development in your love relationship.

You Spend Time Together

You Spend Time Together

There are couples who move in together especially when they do not get much time with each other. Well, moving in will not solve this problem. So, make sure you two get enough time and space with each other.

Household Chores

Household Chores

If your man doesn't mind helping you in the kitchen or keeping the house clean, then it is a clear sign that you can take the decision to move in with your love!

Future Discussions Are There

Future Discussions Are There

This is subjective. However, you both must be clear about your future plans and most importantly the future of the relationship. Once the future is clear, you can take it as a sign to go ahead and stay together!

Story first published: Thursday, November 21, 2013, 18:36 [IST]
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