Signs That He Is Serious About You

Have you often wondered if your guy is really serious about your relationship with him? While women mostly want to have a stable relationship, men mostly like keep to away from the responsibility of a serious relationship as long as it is possible. If you are in relationship right now and you are afraid to experience a heart break in future, then it is very crucial for you to find out whether your guy is serious about you or not.

If a guy is serious about the relationship, then he will always think of it on a long term basis. He will have some definite plans for the future of both. On the contrary, if he is looking for a short term relationship, then he will always avoid talking about the future. You need to identify these signs in order to know whether he is going to take it a long way or dump you in between.

Here are some ways to know if your guy is actually serious about you:

Wants To Know All About You

Wants To Know All About You

You know that he is serious about you when he spends time knowing more and more about you. He will ask you about every small detail about your life, your childhood, your friends, your hobbies and will seem interested in everything related to you.

Doesn't Play Mind Games

Doesn't Play Mind Games

If he has planned for something with you, he makes sure to complete it. He doesn't torment you by saying something and doing something else. If he plays mind games with you, you can be dead sure that he doesn't care and is not serious about the relationship.

Calls You Up

Calls You Up

Sometimes he may call for no reason at all. Even if you have just met, he calls you up to know if you reached home or not. If still he calls you up just to hear your voice even after a year he has spent with you, be sure he is serious about you.

Introduces You To His Friends & Family

Introduces You To His Friends & Family

If he is keen that you meet his friends and introduces you to them, it is a positive sign that he is serious. He wants his friends to meet you and like you. Similarly he will introduce you to his family members. If not directly to parents, but definitely to his siblings or cousins. It surely means he wants to take the relationship to the next level.

He's Always Punctual

He's Always Punctual

If he is punctual, he is definitely into you. A man who cares for you and is serious about the relationship will never keep you waiting on a date. He will make sure he turns up on time and if he cannot, he will inform you beforehand. This is a simple gesture to show that he cares for you.

Wants To Be With You Only

Wants To Be With You Only

He makes sure that everyone knows about it that you are his steady girlfriend. This means he doesn't want other girls to hook on him. This is a huge step for a guy to take. It means he takes you very seriously.

Asks & Respects Your Opinion

Asks & Respects Your Opinion

Does he take you along for shopping his clothes? If he does and trusts your opinion about it then he definitely cares how you feel about things related to him. Even on serious issues like his career or finance, he will seek your opinion and respect your advice. This shows a serious attitude that he has for you.

Keeps You Informed About His Plans

Keeps You Informed About His Plans

You know that you are in a serious relationship when his daily routine is transparent to you. You know when he is in office, when he goes out and when he meets his friends. Not because you forced him to keep you informed, but because he feels like keeping you informed about everything. This is a major basis for mutual trust.

He Is Always There For You

He Is Always There For You

He may say some nasty things sometimes. But if he is serious about you, he will always be there for you when you need him the most. In spite of whatever fights you may have had, he will make sure he doesn't leave you alone when you are in trouble.

Story first published: Tuesday, July 30, 2013, 18:40 [IST]