Excuses To Call Your Ex

By Madhu Babu

A relationship can end in several ways, some end on a happy note while other relationships demise sourly. Either which way, there are chances you may still harbour feelings for her after the breakup. This might compel you to call your ex some time after your end your relationship with her. Even though your feelings might be genuine, you still need a good excuse to call our ex. You have to make sure the excuse you choose to call your ex does not make you look puny, desperate or send out the wrong signal to her.

A breakup of any relationship takes its toll on both the partners. Hence, if you find a genuine excuse to call your ex, it has to be worth reliving the pain. Even if a relationship ends on a happy note there will always be a sour spot. Hence, when you feel like calling your ex for whatever reasons, it is better to be on a safer side by finding a good excuse to call your ex. There is no harm in getting back together or giving your relationship another try if you feel its worth it. Any reconciliation can only start by communication.

Excuses To Call Your Ex

Excuses to call your ex could be silly or well planned. It depends on your motive to call her. If you wish to reconcile, you can choose to call her for serious reasons such as inquiring for a relatives well being, her career related issues etc.

Wishing her
One of the most fool proof excuse to call your ex would be to wish her. The occasion could be anything like her birthday, her new job or promotion etc. This excuse cannot be disputed as it can be turned into an innocent gesture.

Well being of relative
Being in a relationship introduces you to a lot of her relatives and more so importantly her parents. If you find out someone on her side was ill, there could be no better excuse to call your ex to inquire about their well being.

Convey your good news
Sometimes if you achieve something extraordinary or something that you find is worth conveying to her yourself, it's a perfect excuse to call your ex for. It would show you like her as a friend and still care for her by showing you think about her in your success.

Information
There will be times when you need some important information that your ex has good knowledge on. This could be a good excuse to call your ex to see if she can help you with some info. This will give your opportunity to catch up in a casual way.

Help
No matter how sourly or sweetly your relationship with your ex ended, when you are in trouble and find it as an excuse to call your ex, she will respond positively more times than not. Things like out of cash or forgotten wallet in a late night bar are innocent reasons to call for help.

Call to reconcile
Yeah, sometimes if you really want to get back to her and give your relationship another try, you can be straight forward in this matter and choose to call her to convey the same. It does not matter how things end up but at least you would have tried.

Mistakenly called!
Here is a out-there and cliché reason you can find to call her. You can tell her you called by mistake while dialling a similar name or something like that and be convincing enough. More times than not you will strike a conversation, and it hardly goes wrong.

Story first published: Thursday, December 5, 2013, 18:59 [IST]
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