How To Be A Challenge For Your Man?

Thursday, September 13, 2012, 14:07 [IST]

What do men love most about women? Not their looks because that ceases to matter beyond a point. Not their brains because they feel threatened by smart women sometimes. If is a decent guy then he won't love you for your money. What men really love is a good challenge. The adrenaline rush of being with a woman who can challenge her man is just phenomenal.

If you want to keep a guy interested in you, then you have to think past physical appearance and even the goodness of your soul. You need to challenge your man constantly to have him hooked on to you. Here are few ways in which you can be a challenge for your man.

Free Soul: It is true that men love women who are homely and nurturers. But that comes later. When it comes to attraction, free-spririted women score much more than women who are domestic by nature. Every man has this irresistible fantasy of taming a wild mare. Controlling a woman who has free spirit is a dream that men cannot resist.

Lead The Way: Lets face it girls, not all men are chauvinists. Some men just love women who can dominate them and take the lead. Whether it is planning your next vacation or the lovemaking position you choose, take the lead role. And see how your man follows you like an awed puppy. But if you know how to keep the man hooked, just don't overdo it.

Gadget Girl: Most men think that women are so technologically challenged that they cannot differentiate one gadget from another. But that is not always true. You can be just as tech-savvy as your man. Surprise your man with your knowledge for technology and the latest gadgets. When he finds out that you know more about the best tablets than he does, then he will not get hooked but also respect you.

Keep Up With Me: The best way to challenge a man is to be busy. You need to lead a full and eventful life with or without him. Men do not like women who cook and wait for them to come home any more. If you have an enthralling social life and a busy work schedule then he will pine for your time. If he has to struggle to get some time with you, he will make best use of that time. However, make sure that you don't be too busy to see him at all. Then he will take it as a snub.

You Wanna Bet: The most simplistic way to challenge your man is to literally wager with him. Challenge him to things that portray you in traditionally unconventional roles like driving, earning and sky-diving.

If you want to know how to keep a man hooked on to you, then you better start working on these suggestions. Have you ever challenged your man?