A Mother's Love Advice For Her Daughter

By Deepa Ranganathan

Parenting can be tough, especially when your daughter is growing older. It's time for your daughter to learn and unlearn new things, explore the far and the wild and grow with each chapter of her life. It's at this point that she will fall in love, meet new people, and combat with her emotions.

As a mother, you can help her in the journey where she explores to find her love. You won't be living her life for sure but, you would be guiding her in the journey.

Love Advice For Daughters

With your rich experiences, your love advice to your daughter will only help her in the future. You don't want your daughter to love someone who is not worthy of her. You have raised her to be a good human being and have taught her to respect her own self. You won't want someone changing her or breaking her from within.

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A mother's whole life waits for the moment when she would have this splendid heart to heart discussion with her daughter teaching some important love lessons.

Here, you would be telling her how she can know who is right and also telling her how there is no rule book to life. You are the one person who can relate to her feelings and guide her in the right way. Let's begin by understanding the important love advice that a mother can give her daughter.

Give respect to earn it
It's not just about respecting or caring for others, it also involves your own self. You need to teach your daughter to love her own self. It's when she loves herself that she can be loved by others. Teach her to respect her needs and love herself. You can give no greater love advice than this to your daughter.

You are what you are
"You don't need to change anything in you" is what you as a mother should be able to teach your daughter. You will have to tell her that anyone who demands her to change or doesn't find her worthy of love is definitely not the one who deserves a place in her life.

Pleasures are important
Sex is something that you as a mother may not want to discuss. But, teaching her about the bodily changes she is experiencing, talking to her about the pleasures of life and helping her think of sex as a positive desire would help her seek the pleasures when she is absolutely ready.

Know what you seek
Teach her to have a strong sense of self. It is very important to understand those small things that might nag her like there's something missing or it's not really going the way it should. Tell your daughter not to neglect these signs but to understand what's going wrong, communicate it and solve the matter. Neglecting would mean dragging a relationship. Trust us, your daughter will one day thank you for this important love advice.

Don't chase, let it come
You need to teach your daughter that desperation may lead to her significant other running away from her. Let love come when it is absolutely ready to arrive at her doorstep. This is an important lesson that would save her from heartbreak.

Avoid litmus tests
You would need to teach your daughter to base the relationship on trust. She will need to trust her own self and her significant other as well as the relationship. Testing the other's love will get you nowhere. You need to tell her it's all about trusting that basic instinct on which the relationship began.

Cherish your daughter and her choices when it comes to love. And your daughter will forever cherish the love advice her mother has bestowed on her.