In Between Your Profession And Family!

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The modern life demands effective time management from anyone's life. There is a need to divide your time between family, friends and most importantly profession. In the Indian society men face the major dilemma to incorporate themselves between the family and career while, their female counterparts may easily slip into the multiple roles. Why the life puts Indian men at a dilemma in this situation, while it excludes their female counterparts?

As a part of the new globalization, International companies are investing for cheap labour and enthusiastic professionals in India. Even though women share a major role in contributing for the financial status for the Indian families, men are still not exempted from the role of the major breadwinner in any family.

To raise the financial and social status in Indian society, any man has to work upto their maximum caliber, which demands extended hours in the office, , extended meetings and holiday less weeks. In these situations men rarely gets time to spend fruitful time to spend time with their loving family.

What is the dilemma these modern working conditions put men into? The bachelor men often tend to spend more time with their peer group to relax from the demanding working schedules. However, this routine gives frustrating moments for the anticipating eyes of their parents. Once the darling boys return to the family, the parents may pour out their dilemmas to add melancholy to the already pressurized moments of men's lives.

Man starts to get squeezed between family and their career goals once they get married. The late night work schedules and long-term set him apart from his loving partner. Occasional rifts arise when the expectations cannot meet between the partner and the career. In between, men may also fail to assist his new bride to merge into his family. These issues may lead into a permanent gap in family relationships also.

The birth of the child completes the man's suffocation in between the family and the work place. Some men may not even understand the pregnancy mood swings of their wives, and leap into a distressed state while their lonely wives make the tantrums. In this situation many men wonder what they actually want out of their lives!

How can you get out of this melancholic state that any modern man experiences? It is time to look back at your parents to learn how they had merged family and career in their lives. Surprisingly, our parents were well at time management than us. Their authoritarian daily routine and healthy diet never wavered at any moment, thus helping them to enjoy an energetic aura around them. They adhered to the rules of punctuality, which enabled them to divide their time effectively between family and career.

You may have the feeling that I am advocating the same dialogues as uttered by our parents. However, have you ever noticed the successful men in this generation, who manage to find ample time between family and career? They are brave enough to tell 'No' be it is at career or at family. They never try to become a super man in their lives and understand their limitations and true capabilities. They realize how to be content with what they have and not to push behind the limits. Above all they are masters to take people into confidence.

It is time to open your minds to get out of this engulfing dilemma of in between. Do have a clear vision and understand that, both the areas have a prime role in your lives. Never sacrifice one aspect for the other one. Contemplate on your life for at least ten minutes when you wake up and before you return to bed. No strict rules, no resisting diets, no binding routines, you will start to see the life in its true colours! Very soon you will be experiencing the bliss of two worlds as your parents had experienced once!