Emotional threats between man and woman

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The cell phone continuously ringing in the middle of night. You pick it up from deep sleep. There comes a melancholic voice from the other side of the phone "You have gone with a new boyfriend/girlfriend for a walk. Here I am not even looking at another girl's/ boy's face. You will realize my love and value only when you loose it." Well your peaceful sleep after a tiring day has spoiled for deep thoughts.

Many people have faced the emotional threats from their partners at some instances in life. The argument here is who threats you emotionally? Do it men who always threat women or vice versa?

Men have always been accused for being overly possessive. They may take all ways to prevent a punch to their ego coming from a woman's side. The threats may be common ones as in the above instances or serious threats like " I'll spoil your family life with false evidences", "I'll reveal your past in front of the society," " I'll kill you or your loved one", "and I'll attack you" etc.

The worst emotional threats from men come unexpectedly " I am going to drive in full craziness because of you. Only you consent to marry/love me can save my life." Or " I am standing at the verge of suicide. After my death you have to feel guilty that you are the only person responsible for that." Some men may even distribute the woman's contact number to others to give anonymous threats. All women find these threats unbearable and curse the moment that they met the particular man.

Women are not behind to men while posing emotional threats. The insecurity feeling will always push women threat their man emotionally. The emotional punching takes a soft tune on another instances. "I love you so much dear. Never think that I can live without you. If you leave me my life will be doomed to death". The partners may exchange day today emotional threats like " Do this if you love me" etc.

Women may test the emotions of men as "I'll commit suicide on your name and hold you responsible," "I'll accuse you and your family for harassing me," "I'll come and spoil your official meetings," and even enact some safe suicide attempts. These emotional threats are enough drive even the boldest man to panic.

Whatever is the reason, emotional threats have become an annoying aspect of modern ruthless life. There is no specific answer for whether men or women are the major emotional teasers. The argument is open for discussion. Be it a man or a woman the only thing the victim can do is to trust in own self and to be bold at heart.

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