What Kind Of A Man Women Dream ?

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Most men wish to take a dive into the fantasy-world of women. They think of it many times but feel like a rat when it comes to ask such a thing. But many of us have never dare to know what kind of a man is usually wished by someone who has a very bold personality, like any women boss.

Once you dare to ask it , most likely, you are going to get a blunt reply :"a handsome and rough-tough guy". After all, nobody cherishes dreaming about anyone with frail-looking personality. Or at the worst, a couch-potato guy. Understand it in straight terms: JISME KUCH TO MARDON WALI BAAT HO YAAR (someone who has manly features).

Not just in private talks, but at public places too, every one of us would have heard sentences like: Really yaar, he is a real man. Be it film or any homely get- together, we notice phrases like this one being commonly used by many women. But when it comes to bossy women it is the only choice they have in their minds. For the objective is to define manliness by some particular traits;, boldness, determination, , guts confidence, chocolate-looks and sharp-mindedness.

Today, most of the women even hesitate to think about one's life partner or boyfriend, being a little less than a 'macho man'. Call it a changed view about an ideal man or blame it as the cinematic effect on metro-women. But this is the reality that exists and rules the fantasies of almost every woman in metro cities. Any thin, fair-complexioned or idealist kind of a guy is treated as an obsolete choice by many. Be it any college girl most likely even a slight mention of any timid guy will receive a big 'No' 'No'. For, ladies with dominant attitude prefer a guy who at times can put himself boldly, no matter if it is dictating terms. This quality is associated with one's guts of boldness and power to perform too!

Even, the submissive ladies expect her man to take charge in every activity of their life. So be it taking major decisions or enjoying the physical pleasures of life, the desire to be dominated remains intact. For instance, she may like it when you hold her hands or give her soft-spoken instructions. The only way to find out is by gauging her reaction during the most romantic moments.

But does it mean she cannot take the first move? The answer is "no". She can but she doesn't like it . For, even a woman who tends to be on the bossy side may like to be submissive in the bedroom every now and then, and let her man be the dominant one.

It is important to keep in mind, however, that women who do not mind relinquishing their power in the bedroom and in the relationship do this consciously. They willingly submit themselves to their man's desires and let him call the shots. Unsurprisingly, there is no inhibition that hurts even the most feminist mind during these loving moments.

Interestingly enough, the best way to make her accept your being the more dominant one in the relationship is to treat her like an equal. The more you try to keep her under your thumb and treat her in a blatantly sexist manner, the more she is likely to fight back to assert her power.

Maintain equality
If you treat her with respect and understand that her female brand of intelligence is just as valid as your own, she will not feel the need to assert her power.

On being treated as an equal she will happily submit to your wishes This will show tht you are not threatened by a smart woman. And confidence is a huge turn-on. On the other hand, blatant sexism on your part will be interpreted as weakness and insecurity, which are the ultimate turnoffs for women.

Unfortunately too many men simply do not understand that the concept of equality does not mean that women want to be treated like them. It only means women want the same courtesy and respect that is afforded to men.

Respecting women's intelligence and treating them like women should not be thought of as mutually exclusive ways of thinking. Deep down in mind women want to be taken care of , no matte if it is sometimes in a little not-so-softly!

So, to be the man of her dreams you got to know what kind of lady you are with. It is not the most decent and soft-baby approach that works in cajoling. Folks! Sometimes, it is our roughness that is desperately required!