Why Limit a Hug to 3 Minutes? New Zealand Airport’s New Rule Raises Questions

A hug from a loved one is one of the most comforting and affectionate gestures, embodying feelings of security, love, and care. Whether your family member, friend, or partner is heading off on a short trip or a long journey, a hug is the perfect way to show how much you will miss their presence. But in a bid to manage traffic congestion, New Zealand Airport has introduced a quirky new rule that goodbye hugs will now be limited to just 3 minutes. What do you think about this? Read on to find out more.

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The Warning Sign

"Max hug 3 minutes", a symbol of two people hugging in the middle and below the words "For fonder farewells please use the car park", is a signboard that you will notice outside the NZ Airport's terminal. Emotional airport goodbyes are nothing new, but if you're flying out of Dunedin, New Zealand, you'll need to make your hugs quick!

This "cuddle cap" was put in place in September to keep things running smoothly, according to airport CEO Daniel De Bono. While the rule stirred up some strong reactions, people aren't thrilled about being told how long they can hug. He explains it's all about ensuring the drop-off zone stays clear for quick farewells. De Bono told Radio New Zealand on Monday, "People are going 'you can't tell us how long we can have a hug for.'"

A Fun Approach Instead of Fines

He shared that instead of strict fines like other airports, they chose a fun approach by introducing a 3-minute hug limit in the drop-off zone. The idea is to keep things moving and make room for everyone's goodbyes, as some farewells and even a few romantic moments were dragging on.

The quirky rule has sparked mixed reactions online, with some calling it "inhumane," while others appreciate the lighthearted solution. De Bono also joked that 20 seconds is enough for feel-good hormones like oxytocin, anything longer is awkward.

But don't worry, "We're not going to call the hug police," he told Radio New Zealand. If your goodbye takes longer, you're welcome to move to the parking lot, where you can hug for up to 15 minutes, free of charge!

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The Power of Hugs

As CEO Dan De Beno restricts hugs at the NZ Airport, which is a debatable issue in all sense, let's dig into the benefits of hugs. Hugs are more powerful than we think, they can reduce stress, protect against illness, and even boost heart health. Studies show that hugging someone, especially in tough times, helps lower stress for both the person receiving and giving the hug. It can also boost your immune system, making you less likely to get sick, and if you do fall ill, the symptoms may be less severe.

Hugging has been shown to improve heart health by lowering blood pressure and heart rate, while the release of oxytocin, known as the "cuddle hormone," makes us feel happier and reduces stress. Hugs can also ease pain, reduce fears, and help people communicate emotions like love, sympathy, and gratitude without words.

According to family therapist Virginia Satir, Experts we need multiple hugs a day for optimal well-being-4 for survival, 8 for maintenance, and 12 for growth. Unfortunately, many people today are touch-deprived due to modern social conventions. But science shows that regular hugs, even brief ones like 3 minutes, can have amazing effects on our brains and bodies.

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