Ways To Deal With A Control Freak

By Anvi Mehta

Have you ever dealt with a person who wants to control everybody and everything around him? Or have you ever been with somebody who would do all that it takes to work things his way? We are sure at least once in your life you may have come across such people. These are the ones who boss around, want to make things worse in your life and make you dance around in their fingers.

Such category of people are a little hard to convince and get along with. They do not liesten to advices and like to control things their way. Such people can be tolerated only for sometime, then all the controlling becomes a total nuisance. Infact at times the control freaks can annoy anybody with their demands and habits.

Ways To Deal With A Control Freak

To keep a control on control freaks can be doe only by people with snart moves and thinking. Understanding the needs and ego of these control freaks and reacting likewise is the key to control these people. So, we are discussing some best ways to deal with control freaks. The tips are as follows:-

Do not argue - Never ever argue with control freaks. They cannot think of loosing in any argument. So, if you ever want to get things done by a control freak,
make them feel they are right and talk in a request tone. This would definitely make them feel inportant and independent to do their work wothout any controlling in it.

Do not think negative - Even though control freaks are very much into making lives right. But these are also good in organising and decision making. Hence one should avoeid bad of them and concentrate on the good.

Use jokes- Every body has a weakpoint to elevate their mood and let go of life, add a little tint of care. Everybodun smiles and laugh at good sense of humor and also is pne of the best deals to control freaks.

Use the no reaction method - Some control freaks would like to suggest you what to use and what to do in your life. Be it a shampoo, your girlfriend matter or even food. They like to advice on every small thing possible. To change this or to deal with such control freaks the best way is to avoid them or not give them any reaction. The control freaks will not bother you much if you leave responding to their advices. As said, Ignorance is Bliss, wil work the best for control freaks.

Walk Away - If these control freaks ruling and devastating your life do not stand still and suffer it all. The best way to deal from thess control freaks is to walk away from them and avoid them. This has resulted in letting the control freaks know that you arnt letting them interfere.

These were a few tips to handle control freaks. Though it is not all that tough but initially dealing with control freaks can be a great trauma. Along with these tips you can also try not listening to the control it all ones. It might also help.

For all the people who cannot control the control freak partners, you can definitely try these tips. Hope they help you get away from all the controlling and involving, you should be careful with control freaks.

Story first published: Monday, November 11, 2013, 14:26 [IST]
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